courage over comfort

Courage Over Comfort Why choosing to lead—even when it’s hard—is the most powerful thing you can do.

April 01, 20253 min read

We look around at others — the ones speaking on stages, launching businesses, writing books, building their brand with confidence — and we wonder:

What is it that they have that I don’t?

Do they have more time?
More support?
More money, connections, or talent?

We see the highlight reels. The polished outcomes. And if we’re not careful, we let comparison convince us that we’re behind.

But here’s what we don’t see:
The late nights they questioned everything.
The quiet moments of fear they had to walk through alone.
The first drafts, the failed launches, the times they spoke up and no one clapped.

As Nelson Mandela said so powerfully:

“Do not judge me by my success, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again.”

We admire the visible success — but the real story lies in the invisible resilience.
That’s what makes a leader.
Not perfection. Not applause. Not ease.
But persistence.
The choice to rise again and again — with grace, humility, and purpose.

What does courage look like?

As John Maxwell reminds us:

“Courage is a choice, not the absence of fear.”

Every leader you admire has felt fear.
What made them stand out wasn’t that they were fearless — it’s that they made a decision.
They chose to speak.
They chose to begin.
They chose to move forward with fear, not wait for it to disappear.

Courage is a choice.
Not a personality trait. Not a gift some people are born with.
It’s a decision — one you make in real time, over and over again.

Courage isn’t loud.
Sometimes, it’s the quiet decision to try again.
To reintroduce yourself.
To rewrite the email.
To reopen the door that didn’t open the first time.

That’s the kind of courage that builds resilient leaders — the kind who lead with humility, consistency, and heart.

Ask yourself:

  • Where have I been playing it safe out of fear?

  • What’s one area of my life where I’ve let comfort delay my calling?

  • What would it look like to lead with courage this week — not perfectly, but intentionally?

You don’t need:

more talent,

more time

or more perfection.

You just need a moment of courage.

That’s where everything begins.

You were not made to play small.

You were made to lead — in your own voice, at your own pace, with clarity and conviction.

So choose courage.
Even if your voice shakes.
Even if it doesn’t make sense to anyone else yet.
Even if the only person who believes in it right now is you.

Because courage compounds. And every time you choose it, you grow stronger.

And one day, someone will look at you and wonder:
“What do they have that I don’t?”
And the answer will be simple:
You chose courage over comfort.

💬 What about you?

Where in your life is courage quietly calling your name?
Is there something you’ve been waiting to start, say, or step into — not because you’re not capable, but because comfort feels safer?

I’d love to hear:
➡️ What does choosing courage look like for you this month?
Reply in the comments or email me your answer at [email protected] — your words might be exactly what someone else needs to read today.

Nagham Alsamari is a Resilience Coach, Leadership Trainer, and DISC Consultant helping individuals and organizations lead with clarity, confidence, and calm. As the founder of Imkan Leadership Development, she teaches actionable tools to train your resilience muscle and create alignment between how you lead and who you are.

Drawing from her experience as an educator, school leader, and speaker, Nagham brings a grounded, real-world approach to personal and professional growth. Through coaching, training, and community, she helps people reconnect with their purpose, embrace change, and lead with intention.

Nagham Alsamari

Nagham Alsamari is a Resilience Coach, Leadership Trainer, and DISC Consultant helping individuals and organizations lead with clarity, confidence, and calm. As the founder of Imkan Leadership Development, she teaches actionable tools to train your resilience muscle and create alignment between how you lead and who you are. Drawing from her experience as an educator, school leader, and speaker, Nagham brings a grounded, real-world approach to personal and professional growth. Through coaching, training, and community, she helps people reconnect with their purpose, embrace change, and lead with intention.

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